Bottoms are more alpha than you think
By: Kyle in Wyoming
There’s a ridiculous myth floating around that gay men can’t be rugged – particularly guys like me who identify as bottom. I’d like to set the record straight and get a few things off my chest.
First – I’m just going to tell you that I’m a manly bottom. By that I mean to say I’m an alpha personality type that likes to be in charge.
That doesn’t mean I can’t be submissive. I can. But nine times out of ten, I prefer telling my top exactly how to penetrate me and I do so with gusto.
Second, I like being a bottom outdoors. Getting topped by a guy in a tent, wooded cabin or over a tree-stump is just fine by me. I’m not ashamed to admit that I like it when a guy tears apart my hole and uses his spit for personal lubricant.
If you’ve never chomped down on bark while the guy behind you drives it inside you – I’m here to tell you it’s the next best thing to sliced bread.
It’s also one of the manliest things you’ll ever do.
Don’t ask me why but there are a lot of gay men in our community who seem to think that all bottoms are effeminate. In fact, there’s a term for this called bottom shaming.
To the gays who think this, let me ask you something. Do you think you are man enough to handle a good, thick 8-inch log drilling through your sphincter?
For that matter, could you handle something massive going deep inside without whimpering like a woosy? If you are the type who likes to bottom shame, I bet you totally can’t!
Bottoms come in a variety of shapes, colors and sizes. Our interest varies too. Not all of us fit the stereotypes some people assign to us.
The next time you think you’re in charge because you’re on top, think again. You aren’t nearly as alpha as you think. After all, when you reflect upon it, bottoms are the ones who are truly in control when you’re inside.
My name is Kyle and I’m from Wyoming. I’m a rugged bottom that likes it outdoors – and I’m not ashamed to admit it.
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