Virgo man in bed – the good, bad, and ugly
Hunting for information on the Virgo man in bed? Wondering what turns him on and off? Hoping to gain insight into how Virgo guys make love? If the answer is yes, you’ve come to the right place.
As a man who falls under this Zodiac sign, I’ve developed a strong sense of how Virgo males think, respond, and behave when it comes to bedroom activities.
Now, before we dive too deep, you need to know I’m not an astrologer, psychic or new ager. Nope, I’m just your average guy who likes exploring the relationship between human personality and spirituality.
In this way, I follow the teachings of the Carl Jung, the famous Swiss psychiatrist who is credited with coining the phrase, psycho-spirituality.
Here’s the painful thing you need to know about Virgos. We’re not always the easiest sign to deal with. It pains me to say this but it’s true.
While we aren’t the jealous type like Scorpios, we do have our own special demons. Later, I’ll go into specifics on these but for now, the key thing to know is that Virgos tend to be their own worst enemies.
The reason is simple – we are often overly critical of ourselves and (sometimes) the people we love.
In many ways, this makes sense. Our sign is exclusively ruled by the planet Mercury, a celestial body the Greeks believed was responsible for judgement.
But for all of our deficits, we make up for them in positives. Examples include being deeply compassionate, highly affectionate and super loyal.
And so, without further ado, what follows are 10 truths about the Virgo man in bed – the good, bad, and ugly.
1. He’ll study you first
Before doing anything in the sack, the Virgo man will spend time quietly observing you. Caulk it up to our analytical nature. We need to mentally understand your personality and determine what makes you tick.
With a sharp eye for detail, Virgos will take in everything about you, including what you say, how you say it, your body language and even the inflection of your voice.
Once our analysis is complete, we use this information to identify what you like and don’t like. For example, are you assertive, laid back or passive? Knowing the answers to these questions helps us to create a plan of action once we’re behind closed doors.
If this sounds a little creepy, I apologize. I promise we’re not weirdos or anything. But without an ability to analyze, we feel somewhat lost.
On this point, we’re not ones to hook up on a first date and don’t hold an expectation to “get some” on the second. When you think of our sign, think slow and patient like Taurus.
2. He’ll let you take the lead
This trait goes hand in hand with what I mentioned above. Our personalities tend to be laid back and go with the flow. This doesn’t mean we can’t be assertive or aggressive. We can be. But it is our nature to let you guide the process before moving forward.
Once we’ve been with you a few times, we’re good at building on insights gained from the experience. Once accomplished, we lean into this knowledge for future encounters.
Does this make us somewhat passive? Not really. The passivity only happens during the initial stages of the relationship. Afterward, things become a lot more intense.
3. We dig oral
I won’t go into much detail here because this is a G-Rated post. Let’s just say that we really dig oral activities – a lot. And it’s not a one-sided thing either. Both giving and receiving brings us intense joy.
Now I need to preface the above by saying we are CLEAN FREAKS. If we detect foul smells or odors, it will likely turn us off. Conversely, you can expect that before getting it on, we’re going to spend a considerable amount of time attending to personal hygiene.
Yep, a lot of us need to take a shower before intimacy can happen.
4. We’re neat freaks
Some guys, like Cancer men, prefer to do it in their own homes. We’re not too caught up in the where. But if the place we do it isn’t clean, it can be a turn off.
In other words, we tend to be neat freaks.
If given a choice, we much prefer making love to you in an uncluttered environment. I’m the first to admit this can takeaway from things being spontaneous. But you came here for the real deal so that’s what you are getting.
5. We dig body worship
While not true for all Virgo males, most of us are into health and fitness. Because we like taking care of our bodies, we get turned on when you notice our bodies during intimacy.
A lot of us like to flex our muscles while having our chest and biceps worshiped. Speaking of the upper body, did you know that our pecs are hardwired to our privates? Yep, they sure are. Consider what I just told you a big hint.
Here’s another one. Whenever we are around our natural birthstone sapphire, it has a strange effect on us. For whatever reason, it turns us into beasts!
6. Nighttime works best
Some guys are the “morning types” and others, night. When it comes to getting it on, most Virgo men dig getting it on after dark.
The reason is simple. By nature, we are worrywarts. The anxiety we feel comes on strong at dawn and as time goes on, dissipates. If you are looking to catch us at our peak libido, think bedtime or shortly before hitting the hey.
7. You won’t have to guess
This may sound blunt but I’m just telling you like it is. Virgo men need to feel a strong attraction to you for things to pop under the sheets. Unlike other signs, Pisces moon guys, Virgo males aren’t good at faking it.
And so, what you are hearing me say, is that we’re either into you or we’re not. If there is a connection, you’ll know right away. If there isn’t one, we’ll be gentle but up front.
8. Passionate and warm
Intimacy for us is usually characterized by a high degree of passion and warmth. When we are with you, we’re centered and focused, meaning we are mindfully present.
There are some signs that can keep a cool distance, even when things get hot. Virgo men just aren’t wired that way. Because we are earth signs, we tend to be basic. We like the physical, natural connection that closeness can bring and find vanilla to be very satisfying.
For us, it’s not about the specific act but instead, the emotions connected to the moment. In turn, this increases our passion.
9. Conversation stimulates us
There is no easy way to say this, so I’ll just blurt it out. Virgos are the intellectual, brainy type. As a prelude to getting it on, we like the buildup.
Part of this means having stimulating conversations with you that help establish a mental link. The topics aren’t all that important. But what does matter is your ability to engage in dialogue and challenge our thinking.
Behind closed doors, verbal is a turn on. No, not anything over the top. But occasional remarks tend to get our juices flowing.
10. Trust is key
This point might sound strange but in the context of lovemaking, trust is a critical ingredient. By this I mean that for things to the next level, we require a high degree of trust.
Part of this happens organically as a function of spending time with you. The greater the trust, the closer we feel to you. In turn, this makes it possible for us to engage in things that may be outside of our natural comfort zone.
Once this link has been established, we’re down for almost anything. In most all cases, however, it will be up to you to initiate.
Bringing it all together
Virgo men aren’t all that complicated. We’re down to earth creatures that enjoy the basics in bed. Because we tend to be self-critical, it helps when you encourage us during intimacy and let us know what you like.
If you are with a man who was born between August 23 and September 22, you are dealing with a Virgo man. We are best matched Cancer, Taurus, and Capricorn.
That doesn’t mean we don’t get along well with others. I’m merely mentioning the “best” matches, based on experience.
I hope you found the information shared here to be meaningful!