The Pisces man revealed
The Pisces man in bed – what are they really like? Do they vibe well with certain signs or can they match with anyone? Are the guys assertive under the sheets or are they laid back?
The answers to these questions and many more are about to be revealed. While there’s lots of pages on the web that profess to know about the Piscean male, most are written by females.
Wouldn’t it be great to know what a man has to say about this topic? Well, listen up because this is your chance. Yep, that’s right – I am a Pisces man.
Before we dive too deep, it’s important that I say straight out that I’m not an astrologer or some new age guru. Nope, I’m just your typical male who happens to have been born under the sign of a fish. Not only is my sun sign Piscean, it’s also my moon sign (see this post on Pisces Moon sign personalities).
The inspiration for this post came to me after asking several female friends about their first impressions of Piscean men in bed.
Almost all of them used words like “submissive”, “sensitive” and “moody” when responding, particularly in the context of romantic relationships. One girl even said, “Oh, wow – are they a handful!”.
Isn’t that terrible?
At any rate, if you are a woman who has your eyes on one of us, I’ve written this piece just for you. My hope is to set the record straight and give you the truth about what to expect under the sheets, devoid of the stereotypes.
Check it out.
1. We’re programmed to please
Many people confuse our desire to please with being submissive. It’s simply untrue. The reality is many of us can be super aggressive. Much depends on who we are with and then mirroring that person’s needs.
The fact of the matter is we’re able to tune into your fantasies and work hard to make them come true. Part of this has to do with being a water sign and part of it relates to our psychic abilities.
2. Emotional connection matters
While we are more than capable of getting it on through a hook up, we much prefer doing it while in a relationship. For reasons that are beyond my understanding, Piscean men are wired for romance.
I think a lot of this is because we are born under the twelfth house of the zodiac; the metaphorical structure that is charged with intense feelings and love. See Linda Goodman’s Love Signs to learn more (Amazon).
3. Kind of clingy
Revealing that we are “clingy” is embarrassing but if I am to write this piece in an honest way, I just need to be straight with you. Piscean born people (men and women really) struggle with codependency issues.
In point two, I mentioned that it’s all about the emotional connection for us. That can be a good or a bad thing. The “good” is we can be extremely intense. The “bad” is that when we develop feelings for you, things tend to go from zero to sixty fast.
In the bedroom, we can become addicted to your bod.
4. We like to party
There is no delicate way to say this so, I am just going to blurt it out. Piscean men like to party, and we enjoy doing it with things that help to expand the mind (read between the lines).
I’m not saying this is a requirement because it’s totally not. But I am saying a lot of us are down with new experiences.
As an aside, did you know that Pisces is the most likely sign to have an addiction (particularly to alcohol)? Yep, it’s true. There is a reason our sign is symbolized by the fish.
5. Privacy matters
Some signs are into doing things in public and showing off. I can tell you this is not the case for Piscean men. The reality is we are fiercely private.
When you blueprint what I am saying to the bedroom, this means the environment matters. Sure, we can do it in a tent or in the car but the optimal location is your place or ours.
6. We can sense your feelings
Earlier, I mentioned that we have psychic abilities. That may sound odd but it’s true. Some folks swap out the word “psychic” with “empathic”. That’s completely fine but it doesn’t change the outcome under the sheets.
Translation: Once we’ve been with you a couple of times, we’re able to tune into you on a very deep level – more so if you happen to be another water sign like Scorpio or Cancer.
Without you having to say a word, we’re going to know exactly what you want. Ask any person who has been with one of us and they will tell you this to be true.
7. Water energizes us
A universal truth for all water signs is that we’re energized by h20. This is why so many of us prefer living by a lake, river or ocean. There’s something healing about the experience.
Bedroom-wise (if that is even a word), we feel right at home getting with you in the shower or in the tub. Waterbeds are fun too. You’ll find in any of these environments, h20 supercharges our libidos.
8. Think blowfish
Have you ever noticed that fish open and close their mouths to breath? I won’t get too far into this point except to encourage you to think of the fish as a metaphor (like a blow fish).
You get my drift. We get into anything having to do with your mouth. Use your imagination here and remember, this post is about the guys. Piscean women have different preferences.
9. Being comforted matters
In many ways, my sign struggles (at times) with depression. I am not saying this is true for all of us but for many, it’s true. This is why being involved with people who have a sense of humor matters over the long term.
We’re great at intuiting your needs but not always good and attending to our own. When you ask us what we want, it will probably take us a minute to give you an answer. But once you show an ability to comfort, we become closer to you.
10. Best matches in bed
To cut to the chase, we are best matched with Scorpio, Cancer, and Capricorn. Yes, there are exceptions but, in my experience, these are the most compatible signs for Pisces men.
You may be wondering about the worst matches? Think Gemini, Sagittarius, and (to a lesser degree) Aquarius.
If you are interested in getting with a Pisces man, know that we are fun and engaging. That said, we truly are the sensitive types and require a deep emotional connection for the long term.
As a tribe we tend to be semi-assertive. But because we are a mutable sign, we are also highly adaptable. Much depends on chemistry and the level of trust that is shared.
What has your experience been with Pisces?