Sagittarius man in bed revealed
By: Alex Manly
Hunting for information on the Sagittarius man in bed? Trying to understand what turns him on? Hoping to jump in the sack with a Sag guy? If the answer is yes, you’ve come to the right place.
Yep, that’s right – I’m a Sagittarius male. I know all about what we’re like in bed and can tell you first hand about the things we like and don’t like under the sheets.
The inspiration for this post came to me after reading about my sign on several astrology websites and being completely disgusted. Sadly, much of what is written out there repeats the same old tropes involving Sag men. Examples include being selfish under the sheets and needing lots of attention.
I’m not sure why these stereotypes exist. Perhaps it has something to do with bloggers who are simply too lazy to do the research and, as a result, find it easier to repeat material they’ve read elsewhere.
Well, there’s one thing I can promise you now. Everything you are about to read is genuine with the goal of giving you the truth about Sagittarius males in bed. My hope is to impart information in ways that inform and enlighten while staying firmly rooted in psychology.
Part of this means sharing the good, bad, and, ugly. As I write this now, I’m aware that not everything about Sag men is nice. But I’ll get to that in a bit.
At any rate, all I ask is that you keep an open mind while reading the 10 truths listed below. I encourage you to reflect on each trait and think about how it applies to the man in your life.
Let’s jump right in.
1. We like to change things up
If there is one thing you can bank on with Sag guys, we like to change things up. In other words, you can count on us to try new things and bring passion to the experience.
Part of this is because we are a fire sign and like things hot. There are only three fire signs; Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius respectively.
2. We’re dominant
To cut to the chase, we like being in charge. This means we prefer to lead and give directions. We do like being verbal under the sheets and really get into activities like body worship and role play.
If you want us to be submissive, we can be, but understand it takes a very close relationship with you for us to comply. You wanted the real deal and I’m giving it to you now.
3. We can be over confident
An ugly truth about us is we can (sometimes) be over confident in bed. This is a reality for all fire signs so please don’t think it is exclusive to Sag males.
Depending on how you look at things, this can be a good or bad thing. If you are a Pisces woman who gets turned on by confidence, we might match well. If you are Scorpio, however, it could be a massive turn on. To learn more about Scorpio men in bed, read this post.
4. We have great aim
Everyone has a pleasure spot. Some are harder to find than others. For Sag men, we are great at finding them. That may sound arrogant but it’s true.
There is a reason our zodiac symbol is the archer. We’re equipped with a chip that empowers us to zone in on your needs, often without you having to say a word. While we may struggle with romantic communication, we have zero problems with the physical parts of getting it on.
5. Think blowfish
I can’t get into a bunch of detail here because this blog post is G-rated. Suffice it to say that we really dig it when our mates get all blow-fish on us.
I’m not sure why this is the case. In talking to other men who fall under this sign, it just seems like it’s an activity we truly enjoy. If this isn’t something you like to do, we might not be a good match.
6. We can be self-critical
Earlier, I mentioned that Sagittarius men can be overconfident. What I didn’t tell you was that confidence can easily transform into self-criticism upon evaluating our performance.
The reality is we tend to replay our experiences with you in our mind. If we sense you weren’t into or that we didn’t perform in the way we’d hoped, we start to obsess. In turn, this can lead to a negative mood.
One of the best ways to help us avoid such problems is to communicate with us while we are doing our thing. It doesn’t have to be much. Just a few words that let us know we are on the right track.
7. We can be quick to the draw
I’m speaking in metaphor here so you’ll have to read between the lines. When we get overly excited, we can sometimes release our buildup early. Trust me when I say it’s not that we want to.
The key to keeping us calm is to encourage us to slow down. We may resist at first but will go along with your request in the end. Several years ago, my girlfriend recommended a handy approach called senstate focus. It works wonders.
8. Love takes time
There is a difference between getting it on and lovemaking. Unlike Pisces men in bed who require a strong emotional connection for fireworks to commence, Sag guys don’t.
Many women who sleep with us confuse our passion for being in love. In turn, this (unintentionally) causes much pain. What you need to know is Sag men are slow to fall in love. While we may be intense under the sheets, this doesn’t mean we’re ready to commit.
My best advice is if you are interested in an archer, allow the relationship to unfold organically. When the time is right, you’ll know how we feel because we’ll tell you.
9. We like it outdoors
Did you know Sag men are the outdoorsy type? We are and our fondness for nature isn’t restricted to hiking trails and canoe trips. To put it bluntly, we get super turned on by doing it under the stars.
In the bed of a pickup truck or in the privacy of a tent, Sag men really get charged up by the sites and sounds of mother nature.
While I can’t be sure, it may have something to do with our sign falling under the ninth house; a metaphorical structure that is all about new experiences. I hope you like to go camping.
10. Our best matches in bed
I’m just going to be direct. The best bedroom matches for Sagittarius men Leo, Aries, Aquarius, and Libra. The worst matches include Capricorn, Virgo, and Taurus.
With that said, your moon sign is important because it is your inward projection of your outward self. In other words, if you happen to be a Capricorn sun with a Leo moon, things will likely mix well. Visit this site to learn your moon sign and what it means.
Finally, be aware that matching in astrology isn’t set in stone. There can be anomalies. I’m merely giving you the basics as a starting point.
I hope this page on Sagittarius men in bed helped to debunk many of the myths while expanding your knowledge. If you are interested in learning more about astrology and compatibility, check out Linda Goodman’s Love Signs book (Amazon).
In closing, I will simply say that when a Sag guy falls in love, it’s the real deal. Once we bond emotionally, expect us to be with you for the long haul.
Thanks for stopping by.